If you feel your
sexual life has reached a plateau and there is a lack of excitement in
the bedroom, it's time to give Tantric sex a go! Some people can be sceptical
about Tantric sex because they don't know enough about it or they don't
want to know about it at all. Here is a mini guide on how to introduce
tantra into your relationship.
1.
You need to explain to your partner that you would like to take your
intimate life to another level, explore something new and have fun in
the same time. If your partner is not so keen on giving it
a try, talk to her about the goals of Tantric sex (not the methods).
Tell her it's not about the orgasm, it's about experiencing a deeper
mind-body connection that would allow you two to be closer emotionally
as well. Who can say "no" to this??
2.
You could tell her you have come across an article in a magazine or a
website on Tantra and it's something you'd like to give it a try. It's
nothing "kinky" about it and it has lots to do with scented candles and
oils , soft music in the background, massage, relaxation, emotional and
physical indulgence
and developing a body-mind awareness together using easy breathing
techniques.
3.
Prepare a nice quiet spot in your place for this Tantric experience.
Dim the lights, use candles, choose some nice music, spread rose petals
on the bed.
4.
Sit down facing each other, gaze into each other's eyes and start
syncing your breathing. Take deep breaths from your stomach, inhale when
she is exhaling and vice versa. Soon you'll feel part of the same
breath.
5.
Give your partner a sensual massage. You don't have to be a certified
masseur to do this. Stroke and gently rub her legs, back, neck and
sensitive
parts. pay attention to what she responds. It's all about meeting each
other's needs, after all. A sensual relaxing touch will emerge your
partner into a blissful state of relaxation.
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