Phone Etiquette When Booking A Tantric Massage

Before booking or inquiring about a Tantric Massage, please check the provider's Tantric massage website. It will give you an idea about sessions, prices, location and most important, what the masseuse does not provide. (This is to avoid any embarrassing questions)

To ensure that communication flows smoothly at both ends, please take into consideration the following:

1.Whatever you do for a living, you will not get anywhere far without manners and consideration. Treat the person you are talking to, the same way you would like to be treated.

2. A Tantric masseuse runs a massage business not a chatting line. Her time is as precious as yours!

3. To make an appointment and then ask what the service consists of, can be a waste of time. You can do it the other way around, in case what you want is not what the Tantric masseuse provides.

Here is a witty video about rules for booking a sensual massage:

Why Does A Tantric Masseuse Call Herself A Goddess?

Some Tantric Masseuses  prefer to be called Goddesses, and this is not out of their ego.It's a way of helping you to acknowledge that you are going to enter the feminine aspect of the Universe. From a Tantric point of view, the Universe consists of two fundamental opposites: Shiva and Shakti  - masculine and feminine.

Shiva, the male God, is the principle of consciousness, of transcendence, of that which never dies but which transcends life and death. Shakti, the female Goddess, is the principle of energy, of vibration, of everything that can be seen, felt, touched, smelt and heard.

The Universe is a continuous dance between Shiva and Shakti. Matter (Shakti) appears out of the void (Shiva) and manifests into the physical world, only to be again reabsorbed into the infinite realm of Shiva.

Shakti has 10 aspects of her divine power, like 10 sides of the female aspect of the universe. They are often called Goddesses and they are worshipped through prayer and meditation.

When you go for a Tantric massage and the Goddess welcomes you into her world, you can emerge with her, and see the world from her eyes. Together you can maintain harmony and balance within the micro cosmos (you, the drop in the ocean) and the macro cosmos( the Universe, sometimes referred as the Ocean)

Can A Tantric Massage Damage Your Relationship?

If you think that you are going to have an argument/conflict or feel anxious about your partner finding out that you have experienced a Tantric massage, here are a few things that you need to discuss with your partner to make things clear, and to explain that a Tantric massage can actually enrich your personal life without any emotional damage or threat to your relationship. 1. A Tantric massage is an alternative and therapeutic approach to your mind, body and soul. The simple fact that you feel inspired to try such an experience means that you are willing to make an effort to reach new heights within yourself, and once there you can always incorporate what you learnt into your own personal life. Sometimes it is easier for you to experience a Tantric massage and then relate it to your relationship. There is so much to learn! 2. A professional Tantric masseuse does not get involved personally or emotionally with her clients. She provides a service and is the catalyst for your experience, once the massage is finished, nothing carries on further than the door. The masseuse caters for your needs, not hers.  3. If your partner wishes to find out more about a Tantric experience, why not book a couple's massage! It can help deepen the intimacy between you both, and will give you those butterflies in your stomach again and for sure there will be lots to talk about, for weeks after.... Denying that you even went for a Tantric massage makes you look as if you had something to hide. Talking about it with your partner sounds like sharing. We all have our best kept secrets, but realistically speaking, just because sex is still such a big "taboo" in the 21st century, does a sensual, relaxing, therapeutic, massage come close to your best kept secret? Well... it does if you let it, or it doesn't if you treat it from an adult point of view.

Tantric Lifestyle - Dare To Change!

"Dare to change" is part of EllaXp's motto. Her Tantric sessions are not only therapeutical and sensual, they challenge your deeper self to connect with your higher state of consciousness and go beyond the "gateless gate". For those of you who doubt that there is something else to discover about the body and mind, dare to try an "Ella Experience"!

Ella has recently come back from her journey through Thailand. She brought back a  deeper insight towards life, herself and the people she meets.

One Month Intensive Tantra Yoga Course In Thailand

One of the best Tantric Yoga school in the world is the Agama Yoga 1st Month intensive course. Anyone can join in, regardless of any previous Yoga experience. It is a very well organised course, with 6 hours of Yoga/ day (practise, theory and lectures). The quality of the information you get is invaluable.

The curriculum covers asanas, mudras, bandhas, the yamas and niyamas, the theory if resonance, Yoga of sleep, Kria yoga, a full introduction to the Chakras and Tantra Yoga, information on macrobiotics and diet, and much more.

For those who expect to have sexual fantasies while on a Tantric course, this is not the place to go to. This one month course is informational and educational and it changes your perspective on life.

The following video introduces Agama Yoga's 1st month intensive course:

7 Questions People Are Embarrassed To Ask When They Go For A Tantric Massage

1. Is the therapist a professional? Where did she study? (Any therapist will be happy to provide you with relevant answers about her professional background. Best to know you are in safe hands!)

2. What makes the massage Tantric as opposed to just sensual? (Lots of things here to be explained)

3. Will I be able to touch the masseuse? (Different policy for each practitioner so better find this out from the very beginning)

4. Is there anything to learn from a Tantric massage? (There should be!)

5. Is it OK if I have an erection during the massage? (This is normal)

6. If I ejaculate before the end of the session, is this a problem? ( The session still goes on)

7. If I choose a nude session, does it mean we are both going to be nude, or just me? (Better ask if in doubt )

Whatever question you have in mind, do ask before you book the session so you know what you get is what you want!

What Is A "Couples Massage"?

A sensual couples massage aims at bringing two people closer by sharing an intimate experience. It is usually accustomed for two lovers.

Two massage therapists will be used to massage the two participants in the same time. Alternatively one therapist can accomplish the task by taking turns.

This massage is an opportunity for a newbie to be introduced to a sensual massage by someone already familiar with it. It can help with nudity issues and relieving stress built up between the two lovers. One of the biggest benefits is that it improves communication between partners as it helps people to open up more to each other.

Some couples prefer to converse during the massage, others want to stay quiet. Some want to learn how to massage their partner, some just want to relax. Either way, it's a great way to help you bond with the one you love!