Can A Tantric Massage Damage Your Relationship?

If you think that you are going to have an argument/conflict or feel anxious about your partner finding out that you have experienced a Tantric massage, here are a few things that you need to discuss with your partner to make things clear, and to explain that a Tantric massage can actually enrich your personal life without any emotional damage or threat to your relationship. 1. A Tantric massage is an alternative and therapeutic approach to your mind, body and soul. The simple fact that you feel inspired to try such an experience means that you are willing to make an effort to reach new heights within yourself, and once there you can always incorporate what you learnt into your own personal life. Sometimes it is easier for you to experience a Tantric massage and then relate it to your relationship. There is so much to learn! 2. A professional Tantric masseuse does not get involved personally or emotionally with her clients. She provides a service and is the catalyst for your experience, once the massage is finished, nothing carries on further than the door. The masseuse caters for your needs, not hers.  3. If your partner wishes to find out more about a Tantric experience, why not book a couple's massage! It can help deepen the intimacy between you both, and will give you those butterflies in your stomach again and for sure there will be lots to talk about, for weeks after.... Denying that you even went for a Tantric massage makes you look as if you had something to hide. Talking about it with your partner sounds like sharing. We all have our best kept secrets, but realistically speaking, just because sex is still such a big "taboo" in the 21st century, does a sensual, relaxing, therapeutic, massage come close to your best kept secret? Well... it does if you let it, or it doesn't if you treat it from an adult point of view.

Tantric Lifestyle - Dare To Change!

"Dare to change" is part of EllaXp's motto. Her Tantric sessions are not only therapeutical and sensual, they challenge your deeper self to connect with your higher state of consciousness and go beyond the "gateless gate". For those of you who doubt that there is something else to discover about the body and mind, dare to try an "Ella Experience"!

Ella has recently come back from her journey through Thailand. She brought back a  deeper insight towards life, herself and the people she meets.

One Month Intensive Tantra Yoga Course In Thailand

One of the best Tantric Yoga school in the world is the Agama Yoga 1st Month intensive course. Anyone can join in, regardless of any previous Yoga experience. It is a very well organised course, with 6 hours of Yoga/ day (practise, theory and lectures). The quality of the information you get is invaluable.

The curriculum covers asanas, mudras, bandhas, the yamas and niyamas, the theory if resonance, Yoga of sleep, Kria yoga, a full introduction to the Chakras and Tantra Yoga, information on macrobiotics and diet, and much more.

For those who expect to have sexual fantasies while on a Tantric course, this is not the place to go to. This one month course is informational and educational and it changes your perspective on life.

The following video introduces Agama Yoga's 1st month intensive course:

7 Questions People Are Embarrassed To Ask When They Go For A Tantric Massage

1. Is the therapist a professional? Where did she study? (Any therapist will be happy to provide you with relevant answers about her professional background. Best to know you are in safe hands!)

2. What makes the massage Tantric as opposed to just sensual? (Lots of things here to be explained)

3. Will I be able to touch the masseuse? (Different policy for each practitioner so better find this out from the very beginning)

4. Is there anything to learn from a Tantric massage? (There should be!)

5. Is it OK if I have an erection during the massage? (This is normal)

6. If I ejaculate before the end of the session, is this a problem? ( The session still goes on)

7. If I choose a nude session, does it mean we are both going to be nude, or just me? (Better ask if in doubt )

Whatever question you have in mind, do ask before you book the session so you know what you get is what you want!

What Is A "Couples Massage"?

A sensual couples massage aims at bringing two people closer by sharing an intimate experience. It is usually accustomed for two lovers.

Two massage therapists will be used to massage the two participants in the same time. Alternatively one therapist can accomplish the task by taking turns.

This massage is an opportunity for a newbie to be introduced to a sensual massage by someone already familiar with it. It can help with nudity issues and relieving stress built up between the two lovers. One of the biggest benefits is that it improves communication between partners as it helps people to open up more to each other.

Some couples prefer to converse during the massage, others want to stay quiet. Some want to learn how to massage their partner, some just want to relax. Either way, it's a great way to help you bond with the one you love!

Why Some Women Can't Have An Orgasm

If you have tried everything, and still no result... consider this:

1.A woman's mind might be her biggest obstacle from keeping her from having an orgasm. It's very important to understand that in order to give a woman an orgasm, you must be able to steer her body as well as her mind.

2. Confident women can usually orgasm quicker because they don't let their insecurities or fear get in the way. Shy or self-conscious women will take longer to let themselves go.

3. What turns men on is very different from what turns women on. Men are very visual creatures, while women are turned on more by what they feel and what they imagine. A woman is turned on by your actions, your behaviour, your attitude and your language. The context of the situation matters a lot, too!

4. It is very important that the woman has a high level of respect and trust towards you. This will make it easier for her to give herself to you fully, both body and mind.

A woman's mind is what keeps her away from connecting with her body. Make her stay present, stop her mind from wandering, and she'll start connecting more to herself. You can start with a relaxing sensual massage to help her relax first!

Sting - On Tantra

Sting is renowned for making Tantra even more famous that it has already been. Every time the singer talks about his Tantric life style, it makes waves in the media and more and more people get inspired to join Tantra courses or experience at least a Tantric massage.

Watch Sting's inspirational interview on Tantra and Tantric sex: