Become loving. When you are in the embrace, become the embrace.
Become the kiss. Forget yourself so totally that you can say, “I am no
more. Only love exists.” Then the heart is not beating, but love is
beating. Then the blood is not circulating, but love is circulating.
Then eyes are not seeing, love is seeing (Osho)
Tantra often refers to Universal Love as the only source we can receive love from unconditionally.
To become loving, think and act lovingly. The law of resonance applies here too. What you think is what you are; this is how others will perceive you.
Start with loving yourself, then you will love your neighbour too! To be able to manifest love, we have to find it within ourselves first.