Friday, 30 November 2012

Learn How To Give Your Partner A Sensual Massage In 7 Easy Steps

With Christmas around the corner, you kind of feel the same pressure every year: the Xmas presents.... If you have kids, it's easier (or more complicated??), they are happy with almost anything... but how about your partner? What to buy for the person who's already got everything?

Thinking to invest some time, love and attention into your Christmas gift? Make it a special one and give your partner a sensual relaxing massage. It will take less than 30 minutes of your precious time and you only need to invest in a good quality massage oil. You don't need to be qualified - this massage experience is to show her that you care and you are there for her needs. 

To give your partner the ultimate relaxing and sensual massage experience follow these easy steps:

1. Find a quiet area that is warm and clean. Light some candles and play some soft music in the background to help set the mood.

2. You can perform the massage on a comfortable bed, a mattress or even a mat on the floor would do. Spread the towel over the bed/mattress to catch any excessive oil.

3. Place a pillow under your partner's head so she is comfortable for the whole duration.

4. Start the massage with your partner lying down on her stomach.

5. Put some oil in a cupped hand and warm it by rubbing your hands together.

6. Apply the oil using long, smooth strokes, starting with the legs and working your way upwards. Apply light pressure to start with and as you warm up the skin and muscle tissue, add more pressure. You can also stretch, knead, rub, manipulate muscles. Always ask for a feedback. Never apply strong pressure to the joints, major blood vessels or the spine itself.

7. Move your hands slowly and try to be there, don't start thinking about other things. Being there in the moment, focused and dedicated for half an hour or so, makes the whole difference. Think that you are making love to your partner with your hands so touch her with love and passion. Show her you care about every inch of her body... make her desire you and your touch. Be playful and creative!