"Learn something new each day. Show kindness each day. Express gratitude each day. Live your purpose each day. Restore at night and repeat." (Author unknown)
Tantra is not just a box, it's an umbrella under which you can find so many paths that you might have already known about, or maybe it's all new to you. Tantra does not refer only to the sexual aspect of life. It's a way of living in harmony within ourselves and with the whole universe.
Therefore when you have a Tantric massage, don't just expect to get aroused. The more you'll be able to connect with your body, the more you'll experience. Building your body awareness is like a little exercise: it takes a while to get it right. When your body is relaxed and your minds quiets down, your sensory and internal awareness expand. That's where the journey begins.