Women are multi-orgasmic by nature while men have to learn how to build and surf on that continuous wave without exploding. Women need more time to find an orgasm, men are pressured by time. Women are greedy, they want another one, and then another one, while most men are happy with one orgasm.
It seems we all want the same thing: whether we call it sex or love making, everyone wants their emotional and physical needs met. The rest is just linguistics. Whether we are able to express our feelings through words, the way we feel after a close intimate contact is about the same. We feel loved, taken care of and sometimes even spoilt!
Orgasms make us happy and they put us into a deep state of relaxation, we can fall asleep straight through after, or relax easier after a stressful day - cortisol (the stress hormone) has left the body, and new endorphins have been released.
Frequent orgasms can make you look 10 years younger. If you have ever bumped into somebody whom you haven't met recently and he/she looks younger, feels more vital and looks happier, no need to ask them why and how. You can though... to check if the theory is true. Be my guest!
Whether in a relationship or not, we can all have orgasms. Of course, "a dildo doesn't bring you flowers and you can't introduce it to your parents" (Sex And The City). If it works for you, (or your hands are enough), the endorphin rush is enough to calm the nerves. Plus your skin will glow (not in the dark though!).
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