If you think that you are going to have an argument/conflict or feel anxious about your partner finding out that you have experienced a Tantric massage, here are a few things that you need to discuss with your partner to make things clear, and to explain that a Tantric massage can actually enrich your personal life without any emotional damage or threat to your relationship.
1. A Tantric massage is an alternative and therapeutic approach to your mind, body and soul. The simple fact that you feel inspired to try such an experience means that you are willing to make an effort to reach new heights within yourself, and once there you can always incorporate what you learnt into your own personal life. Sometimes it is easier for you to experience a Tantric massage and then relate it to your relationship. There is so much to learn!
2. A professional Tantric masseuse does not get involved personally or emotionally with her clients. She provides a service and is the catalyst for your experience, once the massage is finished, nothing carries on further than the door. The masseuse caters for your needs, not hers.
3. If your partner wishes to find out more about a Tantric experience, why not book a couple's massage! It can help deepen the intimacy between you both, and will give you those butterflies in your stomach again and for sure there will be lots to talk about, for weeks after....
Denying that you even went for a Tantric massage makes you look as if you had something to hide. Talking about it with your partner sounds like sharing. We all have our best kept secrets, but realistically speaking, just because sex is still such a big "taboo" in the 21st century, does a sensual, relaxing, therapeutic, massage come close to your best kept secret? Well... it does if you let it, or it doesn't if you treat it from an adult point of view.